YOUR COMMENTS

I will send a different message here --- not one about Bedford vs. Manchester and not one about a new high school struggling to establish itself. I will not speak to the mistake of drinking and driving --- an offense that far too many people are guilty of. I will, however, speak to the loss of a wonderful administrator. I bring to you all a personal piece about Mr. Donovan. You are all speaking your minds by first impressions ---good or bad. I tell you, as someone who has known Mr. Donovan for 38 years that he is wonderful and caring, and a man of great integrity. I have known him as my guidance counselor, a colleague, a boss, a high school principal and most importantly, as a friend. I will not judge him for a mistake that so many of us have or will make. I will not judge him for the decision to step down --- we don't know the whole story. I will tell you that had he stayed, he would have brought your school to a new level. He would have touched this senior class in ways that many would remember forever. He has proven himself over and over again in the Acton Boxborough District as someone who could work through turmoil and controversy and bring us through it in a positive way. Your administration and school board made a wonderful decision when they hired Mr. Donovan. Your staff and students would have benefited in countless ways over the years to come with Mr. Donovan at the helm. Someday soon most of you will forget Mr. Donovan's name and move on... hopefully your school will thrive as it graduates its first senior class. I leave you with the message that you all lost a great leader and for many of you, someone who would have been a great friend. A mistake. A bad mistake. Thank God no one was hurt.
- Kerry, Acton, MA

And, apparently, Boston is the home of supercilious snobs like Caitlin??????
Caitlin, your post was fine until your second sentence. Look up the word 'ethnocentrism' and learn something from this experience.
- Diamond, Concord, NH

Parents and students alike posting here and mispelling princiPAL? It's princiPAL people, not principle.

NH will always be the state of hillbilly raceways and all that is attached to rural America.
- Caitlin, Boston

I find it horrifying that so many people would choose to use up their time castigating others and finding ways to argue.

This article is about Mr. Donovan's poor choice in driving while intoxicated, but I believe, as many have already said, that he did a brave thing in choosing to step down. It seems that he is just about the only one here who has set a good example for the students by taking responsibility for his very poor actions.

It is unhealthy and unwise to go looking for ways to argue when they are unneeded. I have lived in Bedford for 17 years, but attended and graduated from a private school in Manchester a few years ago. I had friends from Bedford who attended West and loved it, and I know others who have attended BHS and love it as well. My parents always, always, always supported the development of a high school for our town, and the opportunity for all youth to receive the best opportunities for education possible was always their top priority. I was proud of my town for finally making the choice to build a high school, and I applaud everyone who took part in BHS's creation for the hard work I know it took them to get there.

Isn't the most important thing what is best for the students? Why must a discussion be turned to who is better than whom or how different stereotypes are perceived. Mr. Donovan took a good course of action involving a poorly-made decision, and those of you who choose to criticize one another should not spend your energy or time in anger or distrust of those unlike yourselves.

Try looking past individualized perceptions and set good examples for your children and other children alike. Show them that town boarders or property ownership do not set a basis for any rational judgment of others whatsoever. Look beyond your preconceived notions about others and recognize the good in people instead- only then will your children have good examples to live by.
- Steph, Bedford

Was sorry to read this. From what I read of the man earlier, he impressed. Still does. He made a mistake, and will now feel the consequences of such. And as any learned person knows... a mistake is only a mistake if not nothing is learned from.

But I cast the eyes down when I read some of the things written in regard to the article below.. This isn't about class, or zip codes. The man made a mistake, and I wouldn't be surprised if some who have commented have not done the same... had a few drinks and got behind the wheel of a car. Should he have resigned? To that, I cannot answer.

But again, as for schools and the communities they lie in, last I read where there was a bomb scare at a local HS, it was over there in Bedford? Of course, and thankfully, a hoax. Point is this business and all of it exists everywhere... similar to 'first impressions.' First impressions and judging another are like a shadow once cast... always at your feet, but forever lacking "substance."
- Jack, Manchester

Give me a break! This article is about one person making a poor choice, not about a town, a school, the student body a superintendent or a school board. We're not privy to the fine details of this case, just the fact that he was stoppped by an officer and he resigned. He will have to live with this now. Comments should probably be reserved for only what we know, not how you feel about the school, town or students, it's really not helping anyone or anything.
- MM, Bedford

Give me a break! This article is about one person making a poor choice, not about a town, a school, the student body a superintendent or a school board. We're not privy to the fine details of this case, just the fact that he was stoppped by an officer and he resigned. He will have to live with this now. Comments should probably be reserved for only what we know, not how you feel about the school, town or students, it's really not helping anyone or anything.
- MM, Bedford

I wonder how much it would take to get Bob Baines back into the high school principal game? He was great at West. What do you say Bob? How about doing a couple years at BHS until you're ready to jump back into politics and we can groom a candidate from within the system?
- Bob, Bedford

Many here have made claims that Bedford High School lacks discipline to the point of endangering students. Does anyone care to expand on this? We have younger children in elementary and upper elementary school, so we often don't hear details of what goes on at the high school.

Please don't commend Mr. Donovan further for his actions. It sounds like he had no choice, but to leave this job (resign or be terminated). He acted recklessly by operating a motor vehicle after drinking alcohol, which now has jeapordized his career. He has an upcoming court date, so it is likely he was beyond the legal limit. It is unfortunate that his personal problem has to be front page news on the Union Leader. I hope Mr. Donovan seeks the help that he needs for his problem and is able to salvage his career.
- Parent, Bedford, NH

First, I would like to commend the other students who have already commented on this article. I am a senior at Bedford High School and I attended Manchester West High School during my freshman year. Sitting down and reading some of the comments on this blog was honestly one of the most disgusting experiences for me. To see the absolute pettiness of some people is incredibly sickening and it is no wonder why the world seems to be getting worse when people take the time to make such nasty, belittling comments.

I love my school and like any other school it is going to have its various problems over the years. Sure we can criticize the problems that the school has, but for the bloggers who are trashing my school, especially those residents of Bedford: words are cheap. If you really want to see something get better, have the actual courage to get off the computer and take positive action. I know that I take that action already.

This principal issue is a reflection of one man's poor decision. To say it is a reflection on the student body, the staff, and the citizens of Bedford as a whole is a sweeping generalization and is simply wrong. I can tell you for a fact that this won't be the last time you see me sticking up for my school. So i guess I will just see all you around then.
- Brian, Bedford

Yeah... go Allison for sticking up for us. The parents at Bedford obviously have no idea what goes on in this school because not all of us want to screw up our lives. The majority of the school is filled with responsible and respectable students who look up to their teachers. Also, it is not the faculty's fault for students misbehaving and acting irresponsibly. You can blame the parents for raising their kids that way.
- Stephanie, Bedford

It is a shame this article, which is about real lives, and its associated postings, will fade so quickly. This was a good and healthy discussion.

Hard. A man whom I would respect and trust; no idea from what is shown that he has a "problem" - but certainly a bad night - showed how it should be done.

Hard. A lot of issues that linger in a community (or a few) came to the fore.

Hard. Some young minds - thanks kids because you are not kids anymore - stood for good consideration.

Honestly? Hope good comes from and for everyone who contributed on this story and its discussion. Especially those who have to really live it - not just blog.

As a teacher might say - hope this has been a good learning experience. And those with baggage you can't unload - I really feel bad for you. Cram yourself into a hole and guess what? You're in a hole.

Oh. Sorry. Some of you don't want teachers... just babysitters until you can get yours back and teach them what, and only what, you want. That worked good in 1850.

And the rest who don't want this education thing to come from their pocket: For good reason - pockets are empty.

Hard.



Now it's time to make sure it was.
- RP, New Boston

While I don't in any way condone what he did, apparently you need to be purer than Jesus to be a high-school principal. I think he could have set a good example by accepting the consequences for his actions and taking his punishment and carried on. That's an example that kids do not see anymore.
- Biff, Canterbury

Thank you to the parents who spoke out about the problems at this school.
- Michelle, Bedford

Wow I keep reading from all you bloggers. I live here in Bedford and my children have come up thru kindergarten and I now have one who is a senior at BHS. We love the school! She has done extremely well there in all the honors, AP and IB courses. What is wrong with all of you. Life is too short to be such nasty, petty people. The VP is a really great guy and has done a really good job. I questioned why he wasn't put in the principles position from the get go. This is all for the best. All you Bedford haters get a grip. If you live here move out and if you don't just shut up and worry about your own town/city. You all need to seriously grow up. Like I said life is too short and you should start to look at how you treat others. It might help you sleep at night.
- TLS, Bedford

Typical of the Union Leader to plaster Mr. Donovan's picture on the front page , while every other paper in NE would feature an article about the funeral of Senator Kennedy, a man who dedicated his life to making our lives better.. The Union Leader cannot miss an opportunity to trash Bedford, what is their problem?
- Michelle, Bedford

Why not tell the parents at Freshman Open House the news?? Many sat wondering where the NEW principle was. You talk about him taking the high road and resigning -how about you FACE the parents and tell them the truth in person!! To then go and fill the position so quickly leaves us all wondering about his qualifications?? Plus he didn't want the job to begin with ! I hear nothing but negatives things from parents and children at BHS. Sad.............. Please make it right!
- RJR, Bedford

Do people honestly think that teens learned from this situation? That's like believing D.A.R.E. works when there's plenty of studies that say it doesn't work.

Bravo..he resigned. Of course he did, it's easier than being thrown out on his butt. Let's not pretend this was noble!

The Bedford High School is in a chaotic state. We removed our daughter last year after making a visit in the middle of the day. She never went back. No discipline and it's WELL known throughout the community.

I wonder why our last principal left? Maybe the Administration got sick and tired of the complaints? Although they pretended they were losing a great Principal.

Now the V.P. takes over and that means more trouble this year.

Parents have been leaving for the private schools in Bedford because the curriculum is dumbed down and there's no discipline in the High School.

I wonder what it will take to wake up this district. Maybe we need to start by denying them $$ to waste?
- Andy, Bedford

As a student of Bedford High School, I'd like to point out that although Mr. Donovan made a poor decision last week, it shouldn't be forgotton that he was a great administrator while it lasted. Upon meeting with him throughout the summer, it became clear that he had a genuine interest in the well-being of the students and overall success of the school. The district made a good decision in hiring Mr. Donovan based on his qualifications, but he made a poor decision that cost him his career. People should learn that the repercussions of poor decisions affect more than just you; they affect everyone.

To those who have questioned the integrity and leadership skills of the rest of our staff at Bedford, you're flat wrong. I'm proud of my school and the leadership within it.

And in regards to Richard from Bedford's comment regarding the BHS students who "act irresponsibly"... good for you. I, too, am delighted that you can afford to send your kids to a private school. But don't you dare assume that the entire student body acts irresponsibly. Their actions reflect an inevitable, small percentage of bad actors.
- Allison, Bedford, NH

Just another example of the poor leadership at BHS. Many parents are sad that our children are suffering because of this and are seeking other options. Donovan did the right thing by leaving. The school can not take any more negatives at this point. Maybe Mayes should step down as well. Actually most of the people in charge should be let go and have leaders from successful schools take over and fix the mess and perhaps train the ones trying to do the job.
- Jill, bedford nh

As a parent of 2 students, BHS has been extremely dissappointing in many ways. Poor discipline to the point of danger to the children. Poor leadership in academics and sports because they want to make Bedford #1. This puts too much pressure on the students !! We as a family hate BHS and have gone elsewhere.
- Dawn, Bedford,NH

Everyone has missed something here...he drank/drive (no excuse for it though) because after a brief time at the job he realized what he was getting into at that school and all the issues with the kids there...I would drink too.

No one will admit publically but for all the money in that town and the "taj mahal" of a school that was built not long ago...they still have more than there share of issues within the student body...and how the parents deal with it.
- Jack, Milford, NH

For the sake of our kids, parents should not try to rationalize or justify what Donovan did. Yes, it is an unfortunate for Mr. Donovan, but it's even more unfortunate for the students of Bedford. He absolutely did the right thing by stepping down. If this tough lesson keeps one of our kids from getting behind the wheel while intoxicated, then Mr. Donovan's lack of judgement would be well worth the price.
- Jane, Bedford

To all of you supporting this guy - drinking and driving is a no-no. It results in accidents , severe injuries and deaths. A school principal is supposed to set a good example for students. Drinking and driving simply sends the wrong message to the students. Yes, his resignation should have been accepted. And if he hadn't tendered it, he should have been fired.
- Brian, Farmington

Great..another excuse for the BHS students to act irresponsibly. I'm delighted I send mine to private.
- Richard, Bedford

Err, Richard why are private school teachers/principals not susceptible to the same temptations as public? It seems to me that you have an axe to grind and you are using this incident to push an agenda.
- David, Bedford, NH

What a shame. What a loss of such a great principal. All this for a few drinks and a drive.
How many other people do the same and don't get caught?
- Howard, Bedford NH

I'll assume that what is presented here on the surface is all of the true story. As such I have enormous respect for Mr. Donovan's acceptance of responsibiliity and am grateful for the lesson it gives my kids and others. However, I am suspicious that more events occured below the surface that argue that this is an unnecessary end to what otherwise could've been a great relationship. Does he have a "good" defense against the cop's allegations? I, and I'm sure many of you, have been stopped by cops before for what they ALLEGED was irratic driving - but I don't drink or do any drugs, nor, at the time, was I taking any presecription medicines. I wasn't required to make a court appearance, but the cop could have chosen that course. Let's not conclude that he was drunk driving.
And just how much of this was his decision and what were the motivations of the board?
I wish the best for Mr. Donovan and hope that all of this will be positive for our BHS kids
- Paul, Bedford

I disagree with the school board accepting his resignation. All people make mistakes. They will not find a "divine" replacement. They will just get someone, who hasn't been caught. This business of everything having to be correct will cause students to be unable to correct problems. It will only teach them "what to think" not "how to think".
"Political Correctness" is destroying the country. There can be no discovery if limitations are in place.
This school board should reconsider and rescind
it's decision. That is, if they are truly interested in education. Did they ever hear of "learning from your mistakes"? It will teach the students a well needed lesson. To error is human, to forgive is divine! Oh there I go, being right, but politically incorrect!
- Steve, Raymond

My great-granddaughter attends BHS, and I personally know (or knew) at least three people who have died at the hands of a drunk driver. By resigning from his post, Mr. Donovan has given the students a real-life example of how driving under the influence can destroy ones career. For this, I give him a standing ovation. This man made an error in judgment, owned up to it, and will hopefully get the help he needs. As for the district, I do not fault them in the least for hiring this man; anyone can make the mistake Mr. Donovan made, and I do not believe the question of "Are you a drunk?" is part of the interview process. Anywhere. As for the comments regarding the interim principal, only time will tell. This school needs strong leadership, now more than ever; I only hope a qualified leader is found soon, if there is not one currently employed by the district. Is Mr. Josokas qualified? I don't know.
- Charles E. Cheese, Chambersburg, PA

Despite his lapse in judgment, Donovan should be praised for the way he acted. He took full responsibility for his actions by resigning despite the lack of a moral clause. If anything, the kids at the high school will learn that irresponsible actions can cause great harm.
- Joe, Manchester

No one is perfect. We may not all DWIs on our record, but I daresay most of us have at some point in our past lifted one too many glasses and then driven home. I did it once, nearly two decades ago, and was let off the hook by an understanding officer who saw I was three blocks from home. I never did it again, but some of us learn this lesson in a very public way, including Mr. Donovan. The man has done the responsible thing and resigned his position of authority with apologies, a lucrative position that he worked hard to achieve over a period of years. I will not throw stones; rather, I will trust that he has learned his lesson the hard way, be thankful that no one got hurt in the process, and wish him well in rebuilding his career.

As far as the Manchester v. Bedford comments, I've lived in both communities, and found both to be full of caring, generous, hardworking people. Many of these comments are below the standards of these communities. Most Manchester children aren't juvenile delinquents, and most Bedford housewives aren't screaming at landscapers for patchy grass. Let's all give each other some mutual respect, and stop the silly hyperbole.
- Keith, Bedford

I wish there was another solution to this instead of seeing a person's career go down the tubes. I'd rather see him admit to his error and work with the kids as an example of what not to do and show that what a mistake it is. We are all human. He is not an axe murderer. I would rather see him get alcohol treatment and set up a group of some kind and talk honestly with the kids. Isn't there a better way?
- LHemy, Plaistow

Drinking and driving is such a preventable crime. Stepping down is the right thing to do here. There is NO excuse for drinking and driving and in the end, many people have done it, many more will continue to do it but lets give this guy a little bit of credit for doing the right thing by resigning.
- Mike, Manchester

FPC-
For your information:

I dont watch Springer. I prefer CNN and the UL haha.

I make over 200k per year...

I USED to live in Bedford. USED to.
I moved to the Queen City because of the Town politics, the absolute disgusting way people in Bedford think they are better than everyone else, the way the "Stepford Wives" club reduce and ridicule their neighbor while not taking the time to see their own ugliness.

My comments were made because it goes to show that no one, is perfect. While it be deemed valiant, I guess, that this man chose to step down, you would all be singing a different tune if he had taken one of your own pod people off the street on his way home...rest assured, you certainly would not be standing up for him.

As for role models in the district, the students here deserve better. Perhaps if the school board wasnt so interested in touting his resume, they would have done some more research first.

And Taylor- from Bedford- as I said- I lived there- for 20 years. so WHATEVER.
- SRT, Manchester

Was it really necessary to have his picture on the front page? Seems a bit excessive.
- L, Manchester

Isn't it wonderful when people who do not even know the situation state their ignorant opinions? Thank you Jonathan and SRT.

Mr. Donovan made a mistake, but he handled it in a very responsible manner. With the new drinking and driving policies, depending on the size of a person, just consuming about 2 beers at dinner could easily put you above the limit. I can guarantee that many people have actually driven after a scenario like so, but Mr. Donovan was unfortunately caught.

For a few of you to sit here and bash this man and the Bedford school district because of this incident is ridiculous. It is a new school...of course there will be flaws! I am in no way saying that the system is perfect because I know very well that there are still many issues, but the school is only three years old...what do you expect?

Mr. Donovan made a great decision and was completely honest with everyone, and just for that, he has earned my respect. It takes a mature and responsible person to take that situation and own up to it...behavior that some of you who have commented should learn.

Thank you Mr. Donovan for being a good person in this tough situation. Everyone makes mistakes.
- LE, Bedford

It's amazing to me that everyone here has so much time on their hands to criticize others. I wish the online papers would just do away with these foolish blogs. And no I don't typically write but my goodness, don't you all have other things to focus on? Our family values continue to suffer and our children are not being taught respect for others. Go take care of your own business and just stay out of everyone else's. Nuff said!
- Mirriam, belmont

The article is a good one; straight forward based on what is known thus far.

Sad thing are some of the ignorant comments from the likes of Jonathan and SRT.

Jonathan, perhaps in your infinite wisdom you could have predicted that this would have happened if only you had been able to interview Donavan. Give us a break; you have an axe to grind with the school district because you didn't feel it was important to have cameras on buses, especially if there had been some problems.

SRT, we "Bedfordites" are not perfect; nobody is. Having a Bedford High School where WE can vote on budgets, elect school board officials, and shape the direction of education here is why we left Manchester. It was not because of ignorant people like you. Envy is a sad thing.

Mr. Evans, not everyone can afford Derryfield; glad you can and that it has worked for your kids. Thanks for paying for BHS though!

Devito and Kruger, BHS has been a big success as is Bedford's School District. If you aren't happy with the school system there are a couple of hundred other towns in NH.

Mary Mags, ya should have closed the gates to Bedford 20 years ago.

Disappointing that an article about how a poor decision has ruined a guy's life has brought out the loonies.
- Bill, Bedford NH

Interesting commentary surrounding this article. I see this as three issues.

First, Mr. Donovan, in my opinion, did exactly the right thing in resigning. All accounts show that he was doing a good job at the school in preparing for the upcoming school year. Did he make a mistake and will he pay for it - yes. Enough said.

Second, the real issues with the BHS fall squarely on the shoulders of the previous administration that was running the school. As a Bedford resident I for one can say that I am elated the former principal resigned. The school needs direction and dicipline - neither of which the former principal had. Also, the school board and the school district administration have done a terrible job of managing the leadership team that they hired to run the new school. Bedford has always been known for excellence in education. The three elementary schools, intermediate school and new middle school are all running smoothly and efficiently. Why then is the high school such a shambles. Something to think about...

Third, I question the credentials of the selected interim principal. Why was the other assistant principal, who is aleady a qualified administrator, passed over? Is the new interim prinicipal competent to run the school? Time will tell.
- Randy, Bedford

fpc, that was such a nasty comment. Not a surprise though, as my years in Manchester (last house on the Bedford/Manchester line!) sending my boys to Bedford preschool taught me one thing above all else: Many, many insecure people live in Bedford where they can hold themselves up as "better than" others due to the price of their home and its number of garages, the latest model of their imported auto, and where they vacationed. It is sad that in this day and age human beings are still so incredibly short sighted about what really matters in life. Oh, and btw, many of the Bedford wives who appeared to me to be so smug and superior, didn't work. They gained their superiority through their husband's employment. I'm not sure if they watch Springer while home, but I'm sure they were the first to castigate the landscaper for missing a spot on their impeccable lawn.
- Eulogia, Chester

Jonathan...would you perhaps be the same Jonathan that was slandering the bus drivers last year in the Bedford Bulletin? I see you still don't know what you are talking about.

Mr. Donovan made a bad choice, and now he is trying to put it right. Good for him.
- Kathy, Derry

Great screening process, Tim. Maybe next time, we can just hire a convict straight out of prison. I hope you take more care in selecting the bus drivers that transport our children... but I know that you don't.
- Jonathan, Bedford


Wow Jonathan...and do tell us how you are so knowledgeable about such things?
Kudos to Mr. Donovan for admitting a wrong. Far more than MANY in his situation would do including many of the people responding with comments.
- Kate, Manchester

Everyone is putting the blame on the Bedford School District for hiring Donovan, the guy messed up and he did the good thing by resigning. There should be no blame on the school board.
And regarding the students and failing, its because they do not try. I go to BHS and it is very easy to pass. BHS'S junior, now senior class was ranked 4th in the state, obviously they are doing something right and before you know it, Bedford High School will be one of the best schools in the state.
- kristin, Bedford, NH

Mr. D, madea bed decision but at least he had enough guts to confess. I bet everyone in their life that has commented on this article and everyone else out there, have done somthing that they will or still do regret, i would
belive that Mr. D has found his but that leaves you no right to talk badly about him and make his situation more then it is. Im assured that Bob Jozokis will be a great replacement and will make Bedford's first graduating class of BHS have a smooth run and a great and challenging year...
- crw, bedford

This is really an unfortunate situation. To put the blame on the School Board in their decision is ridiculous. If there was no history, how would they know? Though I believe in second chances, you just can't keep a principle that from the sound of things, is going to get a DWI from the incident. With all the teen alcohol issues we face, it would be so hard to deal with. I hope he can survive this from a career perspective and move on with his life. How this reflects in any way on Bedford, the high school, or it's students is a mystery to me....
- LTH, Bedford, NH

Congratulations to Shannon, the bedford student, who wrote in. There is so much to be proud of about your school, some areas may need improvement but that is part of the process & growing pains of adding a high school in a community. Stay positive.

A quote to remember: "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations."
- NHParent, Nashua NH

An unfortunate incident but one that the gentleman in question absolutely did the right thing. My only follow up as a taxpayer - will the School Board get a refund for whatever fee they paid their search firm to hire Mr. Donovan?
- Leo, Bedford

Thousands of drunk driving deaths every year in the US is just the tip the ice berg. We’re also talking about hundreds of alcohol poisoning deaths, thousands of drivers licenses suspended and the impact that has families, thousands of alcoholics, thousands of jobs lost, tens of thousands of children and spouses abused, tens of thousands of rapes, tens of thousands of ‘mistake’ sexual encounters, thousands of friendship ruined by intemperate words, thousands of bones broken in bar fights, millions of hours ruined by hangovers, billions of dollars down the hole etc. etc. And for what? Because it feels so good??? What justification could you possibly have for this carnage that alcohol has wreaked in our society?

I don’t advocate prohibition; there is nothing wrong with social drinking and responsible consumption. But, in my experience, there is also nothing wrong with being a teetotaler. Drunkenness is the problem – define it how you will. I think we need a much stronger sobriety, temperance, responsibility, and anti-drunkenness message at all levels of society (especially parental) to offset the marketing and peer pressure pro-alcohol message faced by people of all ages.

Another key point here is that even drinkers who think of themselves as ‘responsible’ like Principle Donovan make mistakes; mistakes that are over, above, and in addition to, the mistakes we all make when we are stone sober. So less drinking means less risk of a mistake. Right?
- Jim, Manchester

So he bad a choice. Know he will pay the price for drinking and driving. I 'm glad to see he made the right choice and resign.
- steven robert, allenstown nh

SRT as a current student at BHS i would like to inform you that removing the student body from the hole you belive in as west high provided many students to take a breather and show their true colors. Our role models do not deserve to be shot down with this incident. Mr. D made a bad choice as many people do in life... but he had enough strenght to tell the board of education that he would resign because he let the student body down. Us bedfordites are proud of our school and are proud that we are finally out of the blue and white and now in the black, silver and red!!!!!!! If you ever belive that bedford high school is not up to par... look at us we are on the top and we are able to say GO BULLDOGS!!!!!!!!!!!
- crw, Bedford

C DeVito, a question, if you hate the school so much then why do you send your daughter there?
- LL, bedford

I am a student at Bedford High School and would like to respond to the comments on this article. Mr. Donovan resigning is a loss for our school, but his actions does not reflect on the students at the school in any way. As a student I take challenging courses that will prepare me for a successful career in whatever I wish to do. The academic aspects of the school are superior and are no way a "disappointment to parents in this town." The only students who do not pass classes are those who do not try, and in my opinion they deserve to fail. To say that our school system is "broke" is ignorant and far from reality.
- Shannon, Bedford

See what a bad influence all those West kids attending Bedford High have had... Oh Wait.. There's only Bedford kids there. Charming little angels aren't they...

And to all you newbies who don't like Bedfordite Bashing, come see me after you've lived in this town for 35 years...You might just understand then what the outsiders are talking about
- Mary Mags, Bedford

First of all a role model is someone who you look and up to and makes good decisions. Just because Mr Donavan decided to step up to the place doesn’t mean he is a good role model. Don’t get me wrong it is good to come up and own what you did and accept the blame in this “it’s not my fault “ society. And I don’t think he should have given up his job. Accepting the blame should have been good enough for people to know it was wrong for what he did. If he did get arrested and/or is being charged. We don’t even know what really happened.
- Victoria Beaverhousen, manchester

This is not about public versus private, or Bedford versus Manchester. You could google Principal or headmaster resigns and see numerous stories of both public and private principals resigning for various reasons. It's disappointing for sure, but far from a Bedford-only problem.
Hopefully the students can learn that there are consequences for certain behavior. Loosing a job/career is an eye-opener to say the least.
- Bob, Bedford

I feel this is not taking responsibility for his actions and not being a role model for the kids. You drink, then you drive you could injure or kill someone. We all have make those decisions when we get behind the wheel of a car. If he was responsible he would not put himself into a situation like this. Get a Designated Driver when you go out or take a taxi.
- Kevin, Manchester

Correct me if Im wrong but the article says he was stopped after consuming alcohol. It doesnt say he was arrested. Many many people (far more than are arrested) are released after passing field sobriety but also after having been drinking.
- Chip, Hooksett

I commend Mr. Donovan for being responsible for his own actions. Perhaps the Bedford School District should consider suspending Mr. Donovan without pay until such time as he has his day in court? If found eventually found guilty in court and his driving license temporarily revoked by the State, he may be able to return as Principal and serve as a prime role model of the dangers of drinking and driving. Maybe such a role model would discourage a young Bedford High student from doing the same? In so doing, this would ultimately save lives.
- Michael, Manchester

I think most people don't realize that losing your license and paying fines is nothing; it is losing your JOB and and the source of income for your family during the period of your license suspension that gets you. (You cannot work without a license)

I am a professional, and lost my job as the result of a DWI a few years ago. I believe I lost close to $100,000 in lost salary. It was almost laughable when the court fined me $1,000 as a "punishment" for driving drunk. Really?

Luckily, I recovered from my mistake, learned my lesson and got my career back on track. I no longer drink as a result- DWI problem solved. Hopefully this man can do the same.

As for all you people out there pointing fingers, hang up your cell phones and drive sober and safe. No one is perfect.
- Steve, Andover

Where you live does not make up who you are. There are plenty of good role models everywhere and vice versa. It's unfortunate that Mr. Donovan made this mistake. There are many who have and gotten caught as well as many, many more who have not. Don't let a DIU mistake define who someone is. I bet you all know someone who has had one, whether you know it or not.
- Joe, Manchester

Angelo, it's princiPAL not principle.

Also, there are no second chances when a drunk driver hits and kills someone.

Sorry, no sympathy from me. Laws exist for a reason.
- Jack, bedford

Great..another excuse for the BHS students to act irresponsibly. I'm delighted I send mine to private.
- Richard, Bedford

I wonder how many of you holier than thou "stone throwers" have taken to road under the influence, but have been lucky enough not to get caught?

We don't even know the circumstances. Was this a first time offence? Was he just at the .08 limit?

While I admire Mr. Donovan's conviction, I don't think he should have to feel that the honorable thing to do is to quit his job.

What happened to learning from your mistakes and getting a second chance.
We have become a very vindictive society that wants to find fault, blame and compensation for every trespass.

We preach understanding on Sunday but that goes out the window every other day of the week. I can see why fewer good people seek public positions.
- Angelo, Manchester, NH

Chris from Laconia, I believe he resigned himself, I do not see much about the school board removing him from office, or that it was their decision to have him removed. I think he voluntarily realized that it would be best if he resigned going forward. This does not necessarily hurt his future if he plans to be a principle elsewhere.

Cat from Bedford, I hate to say this but you do not look to intelligent telling people to "grow up" when you mention how much better role models there are in Bedford. I believe you should look at Taylor's comment and realize that this isnt about whos "better" but that the principle did not act accordingly to Bedford students and if a principle from Manchester had done the same thing, then he/she also did not act accordingly to manchester students. By you saying that "we DO have BETTER role models here" only feeds to SRT's comments...Taylor from Bedford was able to express her comments on a more intelligent basis...
- Ted, Manchester

Good role model???? Are you kidding me? This guy decides to go drinking.. a decision made prior to drinking without taking the necessary precautions (desig driver) prior to leaving the house?
This crap he's a good role model. Gimme a break...
- cheryl, manchester NH

Why can't people see how alcohol ruins their lives? Sad situation for sure for the students of Bedford High school.
- Jenny Wright, Manchester

The only difference between Mr. Donovan and countless other school and town officials? He got caught!! Glad to see he is stepping up and taking responsibility for his actions.
- Sara, Bedford

i am no fan of people who drink and drive. however, i have great respect for people that take responsibilty for their actions. role models are hard to find in this entitlement, "it's not my fault" society."

and srt, manchester...we "bedfordites" work hard, so people like you can sit home and watch springer.
- fpc, bedford

DKruger.
For all those in Bedford who thought having their own HS was a good thing. We now know better. It has been a huge disappoint to so many parents, students and the community.
Hopefully others will learn from this.
- CDeVito, Bedford

Great screening process, Tim. Maybe next time, we can just hire a convict straight out of prison. I hope you take more care in selecting the bus drivers that transport our children... but I know that you don't.
- Jonathan, Bedford

I find it hard to believe (sort of) that this paper printed a comment like this. It is clearly inappropriate and vindictive in a personal nature that borders on slander.
It is unfortunate that this incident happened and I think Mr. Donovan made the right decision in an unpleasant situation.
- joco, manchester, NH

You know what SRT? There is no need to go into the "Bedfordites" comments... Our kids DO have better role models here!!! Mr. Donovan made a poor choice and is standing up and taking his punishment... THAT is a good role model. This poor man has lost his job and he and his family have to deal with a terrible situation..... and YOUR comment has to be about "BEDFORDITES??" Get over yourself... we all know what your stupid comment insinuates.... GROW UP!
- cat, Bedford, NH

I think this man did the honorable thing in resigning and apologizing for his poor decision. He hasn't even had his day in court yet!
- David M., Manchester

Wow SRT, good thing you are so informed about what Bedford residents think! As a Bedford resident I supported a high school in our town because I think it is positive for a town to have it's own high school for a variety of reasons too numerous to list here- NOT because there was anything wrong with Manchester. If you would like to educate yourself on the benefits of a town having its own smaller sized high school I suggest you read some of Jennifer James writings. She is a cultural anthropologist who has written extensively on this topic. Please don't speak for people whom you know nothing of.

As for the subject of this article, it is very disappointing that the new principal chose to make such a ppor decision. He is not the type of role-model any town, Bedford or Manchester, should want for their students.
- Taylor, Bedford

Interesting turn of events for all of those parents looking to shelter their kids from the real world. However, it is nice to see that Mr. Donovan is accepting responsibility
- Harry, Hooskett,Nh

And we have an Alderman in Nashua, Dave Maclaughlin, who wants to run for re-election from his jail cell in Lawrence, MA following his conviction of this 3rd DUI!

I cannot fathom why Maclaughlin would want to do this. He left the city and state to serve his sentence with no word to his constituents or the Board of Aldermen to spend time in his jail cell for 6 months. His dereliction of duty is unconscionable.

At least Mr. Donovan realizes when he did something wrong and did the right thing. Thank you Mr. Donovan for realizing your mistake and not wanting to expect people to reward you for it like Maclaughlin.
- HJC, Nashua, NH

Maybe he can take the Superintendent Tim Mayes, with him?

Note to other districts considering building a high school, DON'T DO IT. It's been a huge disappointment to parents in this town.

Our last H.S. Principal didn't understand the meaning of discipline and this one thought giving students credit for study hall was a good idea. Students pass classes but can't pass competencies. It's ridiculous. This school system is broke and no one wants to own up to it.

They keep selling the snake oil to the parents and taxpayers though!
- DKruger, Bedford, NH

wow. good thing all the Bedfordites scrambled to remove their kids from the Manchester school district. They have much better role models there.
- SRT, Manchester

My State Senator resigned after getting a 3rd DUI immediately after the incident. Mr. Donovan has done the honorable thing to sort out his personal matters and try not to reflect poorly on the new school year. There is a guy in Governor in SC who needs to do the same. Some get it and don't!
- Jack Truman, Middleton, NH

The court fine, lawyer fees, loss of license and high insurance rates are bad enough. -- It is very unfortunate that he has leave his job too.

This is a huge loss for Bedford and for Mr. Donovan.
- Bill Howard, Exeter

It is unfortunate that Mr. Donovan made the choice to drink and drive, but I commend him for stepping up and resigning his position. It is refreshing to see someone take responsibility for their actions. He is a good example to the children of the school system to admit your mistakes and take the consequences instead of making excuses. Good luck to you, Mr. Donovan. You are leading by example.
- Rosanne, Manchester

Great screening process, Tim. Maybe next time, we can just hire a convict straight out of prison. I hope you take more care in selecting the bus drivers that transport our children... but I know that you don't.
- Jonathan, Bedford

I have no idea the scenario and other factors involved, but all we hear about are second chances these days.

This is hard to compare to something like Michael Vick, but it seems like a very harsh penalty for someone who made one very bad decision.....not sure what positive can come from taking away his career.

And, as sad as it sounds, his students may have potentially given him more respect knowing he's not perfect and is a real person. Could have been a great opportunity for him to communicate the dangers of drinking and driving to them....

I personally hope he bounces back strong from this and the school board regrets their decision.
- chris, laconia