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Wagon team survivors happily back on the road
By SHAWNE K. WICKHAM
New Hampshire Sunday News Staff
Sunday, Nov. 8, 2009
Nine months after a tanker truck rear-ended his horse-drawn wagon, killing two of his horses and leaving him critically injured, a former Deerfield man is resuming his travels across America this week.
And Doc, one of his surviving horses, will be leading the way.
Bob Skelding moved to Indiana in April; it's a more central location from which to launch his trip, he said in a telephone interview last week. He's eager to get back on the road.
"It's pure joy," he said. "I get to travel around and do it at my own pace. My expenses are very small, and I get to see the better half of America."
By that he means the portion that doesn't end up in the headlines, he explained. "America is you and me and everybody else. We're just living our lives, having a good time and enjoying ourselves with our friends and family. That's real America."

Bob Skelding's horse Doc leads the team pulling Skelding's wagon. (COURTESY)
After setting out from Deerfield in August, 2008, Skelding and his four-horse team had logged 1,800 miles by last Feb. 10. That's the day a fully loaded tanker truck hit them from behind on a Mississippi highway.
Skelding remembers "absolutely nothing" from just before the accident to about nine days later, when he woke up in a hospital with head injuries and multiple broken bones.
His homemade wagon had been demolished, and two of his Percheron mares, Dolly and Deedee, had been killed. His other two horses, Doc and Joyce, were hurt.
Only Clementine, his 17-year-old black teacup poodle, was unscathed; she was rescued by a caring passer-by.
Skelding had kept a blog about his travels on his wagonteamster.com Web site. After the accident and the loss of his two teammates, he received more than 1,000 cards and letters from friends and strangers alike; thousands more sent
e-mails and posted well wishes in his online guest book.
Doc back in the harness
His sister, Cathy Fagan, who nursed Skelding back to health at her North Carolina home for nearly three months after the accident, says her younger brother was "destined to do what he was doing."
"When you have that kind of energy and spirit, there's nothing that can stop you," she said.
Indeed, determined to get back on the road, Skelding took two shorter trips with his new wagon and two-horse team over the summer.
Returning from a visit with his folks in Michigan, Skelding stopped to visit Doc at his new home in Indiana. (His surviving mare, Joyce, was adopted by a woman in Illinois.)
Doc had been "pretty severely injured" in the accident. And while a Mississippi vet had patched him up, Skelding said, "I didn't think he would recover enough so he could be used for pulling."
But it turned out Doc was a bit too much horse for his new owner, who asked Skelding if he wanted the big guy back.
He sure did.
Doc and the two new members of the team, Belgian half-brothers Bill and Bob, quickly settled in like old pals. And Doc was eager to resume his spot at the front of what is now a three-horse "unicorn" hitch.
"He's a lead horse and he likes to step off," Skelding said.
The team will step out on the next leg of their adventure at the end of this week.
And, now 18, Clementine -- "the incredible flying poodle" -- will again be at Skelding's side. "I have to have somebody to fend off those trucks," he joked.
He plans to head west, then southwest, and expects to be on the road for about a year.
Faith in humanity
"It was just another day," he said. "A bad day, but another day."
He's never heard from the truck driver who hit him.
Still, the people he's met along the way, and the overwhelming response after the accident, reaffirmed his faith in humanity, Skelding said.

Bob Skelding's horse Doc leads the team pulling Skelding's wagon. (COURTESY)
"There are kind people wherever you go," he said. "Yeah, there's evil, and there's always been evil in the world, but it's such a very small fraction of our existence."
Losing two of his teammates still hurts. But he takes comfort from the vet's assessment that the mares were killed instantly.
"They died not knowing what hit them, and they died doing what they loved to do," he said. "If we could all be so lucky ..."
Skelding thinks many people who have avidly followed his travels on his Web site are living vicariously through his trips.
"We all want to be able to have our own sense of freedom, and be able to go out and touch people, and travel and do what we like," he said.
"It doesn't necessarily have to be a horse and wagon trip, but everybody would like to do something where they could exist on that level."
Skelding, who has two college-age children, Daniel and Lisa, said he's sure he'll settle down again someday.
"Sometime I'll get too old for this, or something else will strike my fancy. Everybody who says, 'This is what my future's going to be,' it always ends up completely different."
And for those who wonder how he could give up a well-paying job -- he was an electrical maintenance instructor at the Seabrook power plant for 15 years -- to live a life of such uncertainty, it's easy, he says. "Because to me, vacation is every day."
Too many people are caught in "an endless 'do' loop," Skelding said: "The harder they work, the more bills they pay."
Life on the road transcends all that, he said. "When I wake up in the morning, I know the day's going to be completely different from the day before.
"It's like opening a Christmas present every day."
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big thumbs up Bob!
be safe!
The trucker should contact you to see how things turned out.
- mark, hooksett
ive been trying to get in touch with bob but the web site wont let me in.
- larry sarver, north hero vermont
I have run ins with people every day that dont know that horses have the right of way and that in most states the drivers are supposed to slow down and make sure that theey dont do anything to make the horse scared or cause harm to them or the rider or driver.
I have ridden America once by horse and plan a second ride as i am looking for a partner to go along with me this time. i plan to leave here in the spring of 2010.
- larry sarver, north hero vermont
It's a sad day when the highways and by ways, developed at a time of horse and buggy travel, can't be shared. The mentality of some of the negative posters is a very sad commentary on current society. My condolences to you all. May the spirits be with you Bob as you start your new journey.
- Sue, Brentwood
Best of luck to Bob & his team. Safe journies on the road.
- Beth, Concord
"Here lies John Jay, who died defending his right of way."
- Jack, Candia
Unreal. How thick can one be? " We can't stop living Jack because others aren't careful in what they do." Well, yes you can stop living bc others aren't careful in what they do. The 2 dead horses are a testament to that and this fool almost joined them. Regardless of whos at fault, the horse and buggy will lose 100% of tghe time verses automobile. Bad bad bad bad bad idea.
- Mike, Concord
I think this is just another experiences we should all learn from. SLOW down, and ALWAYS look out for OTHER people. We are all on a journey we just have different goals.If you have no desires it's a empty life. May all your dreams come true BOb!
- Pam Averill, Weare
Tom W from Candia, I am a horse owner, and I think you are 100% correct. Running an unescorted (from behind) horse-drawn carriage on a main thoroughfare may be legal, but it just doesn't pass the Stupid Test. Simply put, it's selfish behavior, it creates a dangerous situation for vehicle drivers on the same road, and it can get innocent people maimed and killed. (And innocent horses, too, Bob, in case that still hasn't sunk in yet.) This is one are where the laws need to be changed to line up with common sense.
- Craig, Auburn
Best of luck to Bob and his "family". And thanks for letting the rest of us see a glimpse of the good life. Sometimes we have to slow down and think about life and its choices - what is important and what is not.
- charlene, meredith nh
The highways are designed for vehicles...NOT for joggers and bicyclist. This guy is a fool and is risking peoples lives. When a car comes over a knoll and has a horse drawn wagon doing 4 MPH in front of them they have to swerve..and maybe hit oncoming traffic. BTW who are the idiots that think joggers have a right to be on the roads?? Do they pay highway taxes like the rest of us pay when we put gas in our cars??
- Tom W, Candia
I disagree with Jack Alex of Manchester. Pedestrians, joggers, bicyclists, horseback riders, horse-drawn wagons, carriages, carts, motorcycles, etc. should all be able to travel from place to place safely. To only accomodate those who are in a head-long rush is unfair to those who get enjoyment out of the ride. (Happiness can exist for us today -- it doesn't always have to be somewhere in the future.)
- Joseph, Concord
Bob, I want to wish you the best of luck on this new journey. I hope now more people know that in most states. The horses and riders have the right away.
Yes you will come across some people who just dont care.
Again the best of luck on your trip and have a great time. Yes angles and DeeDee and Dolly will be looking down on you.
BE SAFE
Shirley from Alburg Vermont
- Shirley, Alburg Vermont
And ..........whats the purpose of this?
- Jake, Manchester
His accident was caused by a driver not paying attention. There was a second truck there at the time of the accident - he clearly saw the wagon and slowed. We can't stop living Jack because others aren't careful in what they do.
- Tracy, Manchester
You have got to be kidding me. Wasn't anything learned from the last debacle??
- Chip, Concord
While I respect what Bobwants to accomplish, realistically after his accident the last time, horse and wagon just have no place on the roads. Even Amish country the use of horse and buggy tends to push the limit at times.
Best of luck Bob wishing you a great and happy journey.
- Jack Alex, Manchester
Best of luck to Bob & his team. May his angels see them thru this expedition without harm!
- Diane, Manchester NH
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